Life must be easy. If not then you may have not use it correctly. Having a relationship should also be easy, to contact, maintain, both parties shall make it comfortable. Work should be easy, if not then this may signal of a wrong job. Doing anything should be easy. Because life is easy. Do not push yourself too hard, dont break yourself, if it meant for you, it shall be easy and makes its way to you. Spend time doing what you love doing will worth than anything that irritating you. Learn not to impress anyone but you.
Some saying that nobody live to work. Everybody work so that they can live. Life always have purpose, but anyway you should live it!